If you come to yoga looking to be entertained you wont last long. If you
come to yoga with the same consciousness as when you go to see a
movie you will find yourself bored to death as the movie of yoga is running
over and over at this local theatre — it will never change. This is the beauty
of yoga. I was looking back at my ten years of practicing yoga and I
realized I have been doing virtually the same 60 or so poses for the last ten
years. I know them like friends. They are not new. They are not there to
titillate me or be my clown. If you are hoping for titillation or entertainment
you won’t be practicing yoga for very long. After a few months you will
loose interest and move on to your next quick fix. The secret is discovering
that you are the main attraction of yoga. Each time you practice you are
offered the tools to go within. What makes you tick? How is life
sustained? What makes you happy? Why are you sad? What are you
made of? Where is God? Is it outside? Inside? Everywhere? The internal
self-exploration is the number one movie at the box office each week and
us who know this run to the theatre to experience it again and again. This
is what keeps us practicing. Do you think those of us who have done yoga
for 10, 20 or even 50 years keep coming back because downward dog is
so exciting? No. We come back for more because we know yoga is one
of the doors that once opened will lead us to our souls. In the beginning
you may find yourself entertained by yoga but I promise you the day will
come when the entertainment is gone and what will you do then? You will
have two choices: Go within or go without.
Archive for April, 2008
You Are the Attraction
Wednesday, April 30th, 2008Formula to Connect
Monday, April 28th, 2008The Law of Attraction promises that a connection will be made when two
forces are similar in nature. We all wish to connect to a higher power. The
entire goal of yoga is to unite with the “supreme one”. The union with the
higher power is thought of as “yoking” which mean to unite. This is where
the word “yoga” comes from — “to yoke.” The Yoga Sutras refer to this
higher power as “The Supreme One” and every philosophy has its on
name for it. We have all heard terms like Hashem, Alah and God. The
Alcoholic Anonymous philosophy refer to this higher power as just that: The
Higher Power. I like this secular term for it includes all religions and beliefs
and I will refer to the supreme one today as the higher power. Regardless
of its name though, I do believe there is just one grand source and we are
all praying and longing for connection to the same source and only our
different languages have created this illusion that we are connecting to
different energies. This illusion is ultimately a tragedy as it causes us to
feel separate and insecure and the ground becomes fertile for wars and
persecution. Although we call God by many different names, the path to
this higher power is similar for all of us. We must all use the law of
attraction. For us to cleave to this higher power we must become more
like it. There is a four step process:
Step 1: Admit that we are in opposition to the energy of the higher power.
This is the hardest step and the most important. Our ego knows that once
we start we will complete our mission so it constructs a lock on the door of
this four step process. This lock is hard to break but it’s vital to our path.
We must admit that we are different to the energy of this higher power
which is why we currently don’t have a constant and strong connection to it.
This for many of us is the willingness we have to start a spiritual practice
like yoga. I am not saying we are horrible people and are sinners. I am not
saying we are not made with the same essence as the higher power either.
I am only saying we must admit that there is a disconnect and therefore a
difference in essence between us and this higher energy.
Step 2: Shut down the energy that is causing the separation. We must
know what we should be before we know what we shouldn’t be. The energy
of the higher power isn’t a secret. We intuitively know what this higher
power is like. For we experience this energy when we are in love, when we
become a parent, when we care for the world, when we feel good and
happy. We know that this higher power has a high vibration because we
have had moments of joy in our life and we know it is a higher quality
energy because of how it makes us feel. But we are not always vessels for
this high energy. We are capable of much much worse. We all have
moments of reactivity, of fear, of hatred and jealousy. Deep inside we
know that parts of us like conflict, wars and lack of human dignity. The
opposite of love is not hate but indifference as Elie Wiesel reminds us. We
also must see that our apathy for the world and its people is also a quality
we possess that needs eradicating. These are the energy patterns that
repels us away from the higher power for the law of attraction states that
like attracts like and unlike things repel. We must stop being unloving,
selfish, hateful, judgemental and self involved. Our yoga postures help
squelch these reactive and body conscious qualities from our being as well
as meditating and deliberate acts of love and sharing. Note that this step
is the ascension towards this higher power. Every small step we take
towards quieting the ego is another step closer to this higher power. This
second step is full of wondrous times and many joys.
Step 3: Fully purge these energies that are unlike the higher power. This
step is different than step two. In step two, we started the process of
stopping these energies. Step three is the complete removal of these
energies. Without a complete release from these reactive, selfish and ego
born energies we will not be enough like the higher power to merge with it.
Devoted daily practice to completely removing our ego through
uncomfortable actions of love and sharing is our medicine for life and our
solution to accomplish step three.
Step 4: Allow the connection. Once our ego has been greatly diminished
we must then allow the connection. We must then allow ourselves to be
loved. We must allow ourselves to receive and connect. But at this point
we have purged our receiving ego nature so greatly that making this
connection it is no longer an act of receiving. Our receiving becomes an
act of sharing because we are now willing to receive so our higher power
can connect to us which is what it has wanted to do from the beginning of
time. In a way we are doing the higher energy of favor by allow the
connection to happen. We let the power connect to us and thus we are
simultaneous sharing and receiving which still insures the laws of attraction
to work. This is called the perfect union since we are connected through
our likeness of energies (sharing) and we get to receive the higher powers
energies at the same time! This is called the union of yoga. Or the Garden
of Eden. Or the energy of being “saved”. Or the concept of being in
Heaven. There as many names of this final union as there are names for
God.
All of great spiritual philosophies promise us beyond our hard work of
conquering our ego lies great bliss when we make our union once again
with the supreme one. We are all on this journey and lets help support
each other. Today, love for no reason. Send mercy to others when they
don’t deserve it. Hate no more. And do your yoga today knowing as you
calm the body down you increase the magnetic attraction between you and
the higher power.
Anyone Can Be Righteous
Wednesday, April 16th, 2008Often times in this world, people feel the need to hold others up on a
pedestal and give them a larger than life status turning them into something
far greater than who they actually are. It’s not the lifting up of others that
bothers me, its the automatic default mode of lower status the rest of us
become when we separate an elite group or people from of the rest. As if
only a few of us are worthy of praise and love. The rest of us our just
commoners and unimportant is how the thinking goes. But this is not the
truth at all. Everyone one of us is worth knowing and is capable of reaching
great heights of righteousness. We often want to put people high up on
pedestals because then we get the permission to be lazy. We can live a
life unconsciously and devoid of true work if we adopt the belief that only
certain people are destined to greatness and the rest of us are just
hopeless fools who need not apply. We are not forced to idolize anyone —
we run after the opportunity so we can opt out of the game of life and sit on
the sidelines.
Probably my favorites spiritual story of all time is a story that tells of how an
ordinary man can reach heights of extraordinary levels. It shows us that we
are all capable of greatness and everyone of us has this potential within if
we are willing to make the right sacrifices.
One day, a wise old sage was passing through a town he had never
visited before. He was just about to leave the south village of the town
when he noticed the most divine fragrance in the air. He couldn’t believe
what he smelled. It was as sure as the ears and eyes and as strong as
anything he ever knew. The scent was of the Garden of Eden. He had
never in his life experienced the wonder of this scent.
The sage followed the scent to a modest cottage at the foot of the hill
nestled by a small spring. He knocked on the door with great excitement
hoping to find the source of such a wonderful aroma. An old man
answered the door, “May I help you?,” the he said. “I hope so. I know
that in this home is the Garden of Eden and I must find its origin. May I
come in?,” the sage asked. The old man was strong and fearless and felt
no sense of danger so he easily let sage inside. Inside the sage looked
around the entire home and came to a closet. “May I open the closet?,”
he asked. “By all means,” replied the old man. Inside, the sage found
hanging a putrid, molded, frayed, tattered, stained and vile jester suit.
The sage knew this was the source of the Garden of Eden for its sweet
aroma was palpable — it was coming from the suit! The sage
immediately drilled the old man for all information regarding the suit and
the old man relayed the following story:
Years ago, I was living in this very town. The town was quite different back then,
but nevertheless life was good and I had a decent life. I was quite poor though. I
often needed to beg for food and many times never had any food at all. I did
however have many friends. I was blessed with many good friends and I truly did
feel rich. One evening, after a meager dinner, I headed to bed only to be
disrupted by a knock at the door. It was my good friend Noah from town. Noah
appeared to be in trouble. He informed me that his daughter was very ill and she
appeared to be dying and that he needed to pay for his daughter to be
transported to the main city 20 miles north for treatment or else she would die.
Noah came to me to borrow any money that I could possibly spare. I told my
friend that I had nothing myself tonight to hardly eat and unfortunately could offer
no money to him. Noah was devastated. I was his last hope and he knew that
without medical care, his daughter would soon be gone. Now I knew many people
in town and I thought of an idea and told Noah to go home to his daughter and
wait for me and I will get the money he needed. Noah was puzzled but thrilled
and left for home. Without thinking I knew what I had to do. I needed to see the
rich miser who lived at the top of the hillside and I needed to beg him for the
money. I went to the rich miser’s home and knocked on the door. The door was
answered by his servant and I begged to see the rich miser and pleaded for a
chance to speak with him. The servant let me in and showed me to him. I
explained the story about Noah’s dying daughter and asked the miser for money.
Now the old miser lived alone for many years for many reasons. He was a selfish,
mean, cruel and hateful man who hoarded his money and shared with no one.
The miser immediately told me no and demanded me to leave. I fell to my knees
and pleaded and begged for the money. And with this grand gesture, the miser
was inspired to change his mind and decided to have a little fun. “I will give you
the money you need under one condition. Do you see the jester suit hanging?”,
the old miser pointed to an ornate, gaudy and shiny circus like jester suit fit with a
multi pointed hat that hung in the corner of the room. “That suit I purchased
during my travels last week. I was hoping to hire a local fool to entertain me
during my dinners, but I believe you would be just the fool I am looking for. I will
give you the money you need, if you put the suit on and enter ever pub in town
and make a fool of yourself. Jump on the tables, yell — do everything possible to
get kicked out. And do that in every pub and when you return I will give you the
money you need.” I remember feeling ill and I felt as if my face turned white. The
prospect of doing what the miser asked frightened me, but I remembered Noah
and his daughter and I knew I had to do it. So I put the suit on and left the
house headed for the first pub. On the outside of my body was the shiny and
circus like jester suit complete with a multi pointed hat. And on the inside of my
body was fear filling my bones and sickness in my stomach. What greeted me as
I entered the first pub was an onslaught of laughter. Patrons heckled and called
me names. I jumped on the table tops and jumped across the bar inflaming
everyone with rage and anger. I was beat up. I was kicked. I was spat on. I had
food thrown at me. And I ultimately was kicked out on the street. It was an awful
experience and I felt I couldn’t endure it again. But, I remembered my dear friend
Noah who needed my help and knew what I had to do. I visited a total of ten bars
that night. In each bar patrons kicked me Beat me. Spat on me, threw food and
ultimately threw me out on the street. After the tenth bar, I hobbled back to the
miser’s home. The miser was waiting for me and he began to laugh with such
amusement after laying his eyes on me, “You are the town fool after all!” I stood
there dripping with blood, food, dirt and defilement. I was bleeding and the suite
was torn to shreds. “I have never so thoroughly enjoyed myself. Here take the
money, it was worth it,” the miser said to me as he handed me the money and he
too kicked me out. Suddenly, through all the pain and humiliation, I didn’t care. I
knew I had gotten the money for my friend and somehow it was all worth it. I
couldn’t deliver the money to Noah personally, I was too beaten. Instead I got a
child to deliver the money to Noah and I decided to go home. When I arrived
home I fell to the ground and passed out. And that is the story behind that suit
you see in the closet. I kept the suite to remind myself that if we are willing to
sacrifice ourselves a bit, we can probably make anything happen. Noah’s
daughter was sent to the near by city and got her treatment and survived. What I
did was worth it. She is now grown and is a mother and a wife and I am the
godfather to her five children. Noah and I have been very close since then and
have become the closest of friends. I feel truly rich in life. I am happy and joyful
and feel loved.”
The old man finished the story and realized the sage was in tears. “This
is truly the most beautiful story I have ever heard and now I see how this
suit has the scent of the Garden of Eden”, the sage said. “I have met in
my life many great people. Popes, bishops, priests, rabbis, scholars,
author and leaders, but till today I have never met a truly righteous man
like you. I see you have a place in the world to come.” The sage
thanked the old man for his time and story and left, taking with him the
awesome lesson that anyone of us can reach greatness when we are
willing to make a sacrifice for another person. The sage now saw that true
spirituality is taking responsibility for others and when we are willing to do
this anyone can be righteous.


